Wednesday, December 7, 2011

The Skinny on Skinnies

Fine, I'll put in my two cents on this whole skinny jeans hoopla.  For those who are not familiar with BYU-Idaho, we have an honor code that we agree to live by when we accept admission to the school.  This includes refraining from alcohol, tobacco and premarital sex, having a curfew, being clean shaven and yes, a dress code.  All students MUST agree to this code before coming here.  This code is not church-wide, it even differs from the honor code at BYU in Provo, UT (brought to fame last year with the BYU basketball team).  This is an honor code specifically for students of BYU-Idaho.

Recently, there have been issues with the dress code.  It's probably the part of the honor code that gets the most crap from students.  Why?  Because clothing is how we identify ourselves.  We follow trends or we rebel from trends.  The colors we wear reflect our mood.  The brand of our clothes shows how wealthy we (or our parents) are.  Our clothing lets the world know that we woke up early and took time to get ready or we just rolled out of bed and barely made it to class in something other than what we slept in.  People get defensive about their clothes and most do not find it amusing when others tell them how to dress.

The thing is, when we came to BYU-Idaho, we agreed to dress a certain way.  We agreed to no shorts, capris or flip-flops on campus.  I'm sorry if flip-flops are the only shoes you own but you need to get some new shoes.  I'm sorry if your definition of a knee length skirt included skirts that come two inches above your knee but you need to get some new skirts.  You don't have money for that?  Then why did you agree to come to a school you have no clothes for?! 

I'm getting off-track (hooray for cracking an admissions joke in the middle of my blog).  Skinny jeans.  Where do they fit in the honor code?  Personally, I don't like skinny jeans.  They don't look good on me and I highly doubt I will ever purchase a pair for myself.  I do not find them particularly attractive but at the same time, I'm not bugged when other people wear them.  The honor code does state that clothing should not be formfitting.  Skinny jeans are one of those articles of clothing that can go either way.  There are jeans that fit your leg and then jeans that suck the life out of your leg.  Another formfitting article would be leggings.  Thick tights, if you ask me.  These are popping up all over campus and I've had enough of them.  They are about the formfitting-est things you can wear. 

Is BYU-Idaho saying that skinny jeans are of the devil?  What about shorts and flip-flops?  NO THEY ARE NOT!!  They are merely saying that skinny jeans do not comply with the honor code as it is laid out.  This means you do not have to repent for wearing skinnies to the store just like you don't have to repent for wearing flip-flops to the beach.  Skinny jeans are not of the devil and they do not induce sexual thoughts (as some of my peers have suggested), they are just not in compliance with the honor code!  Wear them out and about, just not to class.

If you ask me (and no one is, but you're reading this so technically you were looking for my opinion), I'll tell you I'm glad the university is finally doing something about this epidemic sweeping campus.  I don't think the administration really thinks skinny jeans are causing moral problems on campus.  I think they are seeing the students wearing leggings and other non-real-pant articles and then drawing the line at skinny jeans because the students obviously can't think for themselves as to what is appropriate.  The enforcement is in place for those who struggle the most.  Laws are created for the weakest of us and that's what this is.  If girls don't watch their skirt length I would venture to say that in the next few semesters they'll go from knee length to mid calf.

Some people might be taking the skinny jean thing too far and I can definitely see how some people are going to be offended by the new enforcement.  There needs to be some mutual understanding between students and administration at the beginning because it's been accepted up until this point.  I do not agree with stopping skinnies cold turkey because, truth be told, many girls only own skinny jeans.  This should be something the administration makes clear will be fully enforced NEXT semester after everyone has had time to ask for new pants for Christmas.

I have no idea if any of those ideas flowed together at all and I apologize if they didn't.  Basically, I'm glad someone is stepping up and giving some set standards.  Even though we're all raised in the same religion there are different ways to interpret things.  Maybe the girls wearing short skirts never learned where the knee was actually located, or their parents thought it would be funny to switch the word "knee" with "thigh."  Really, that's the only thing I can think of.  The enforcement is needed because if one person can wear leggings than another thinks they can and there's a whole downward spiral.  Side note- same principle with sweatpants on campus and those pants that are not quite pants but a little longer than capris (which are also skinny).

I love BYUI and I have no problem living by the standards I agreed to.  I'm sorry for those students who did not understand what they were getting into when signing the honor code.  Luckily, they're not being kicked out of school or otherwise mocked.  They're getting a nice reminder of what it means to hold up their end of a deal and be obedient. 

In four years you can leave BYU-Idaho and wear whatever the heck you want.  If you can't wait that long then leave.  There are plenty of other students who would give anything to be receiving the education you are and would happily abide all aspects of the honor code.

10 comments:

  1. Agreed. However, why do I continue to see people on campus breaking the dress code? I can't go to devotional without seeing several skirts too short (even though the weather is far too cold for the skin on your legs to bear). I can't go to the library without seeing some guy's pants hang so low that I learn that Spongebob is his favorite character according to his underwear. The leggings rule has been clearly stated that they don't make up for lack of skirt length either. It's almost revolting the things that people consider is acceptable for the honor code. And I may be only one of few people who speak up to a student's face and tell them. But I don't want to have to wonder if the girl on the other side of the room realizes that her rear end is in direct contact with her seat. IT'S GROSS! Stop disobeying the honor code!

    So skinny jeans aren't the worst thing in the world. But at least to me, they aren't any more attractive than the girl who pulls up on her blouse 5 times thinking that it will somehow cover her cleavage. If you look yourself in the mirror and there is even a particle of justification running through your mind that what you are wearing is acceptable, just change your clothes.

    -Jarek

    P.S. I hope you're okay with my comments Abigail.

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  2. I'm perfectly okay with comments! And I agree 100% with you. I'm not sure where in my argument you felt like I differed from you. The point I was trying to make was that they are disobeying the honor code and have been for quite some time due to the "formfitting clause" haha I didn't really address my thoughts on leggings extending the lengths of skirts but agree with you there as well. The administration has been clear that it is not acceptable. Now, if they start enforcing it strictly, I'm sure there will more hoopla started around that topic even though the rules have already been laid out.

    I guess maybe where we differ would be the beginning of your second paragraph because I don't feel all skinny jeans are bad and should be equated to cleavage. They aren't my preference and some are revealing, but not all.

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  3. My dearest Abigail,
    Let me just say that I am SO happy they waited until I was gone for this rule. I love my skinny jeans, I think they're great. But here's the thing that you said and I totally agree with, way too many girls are crossing the line into jeggings and leggings thinking they some how count as pants. Therefore, these girls ruined it for everybody else. My skinny jeans aren't any tighter than my other jeans accept just slimmer at the bottom. I don't even feel any need for justification.

    HOWEVER, the bottom line is that you have to follow the rules and sometimes make adjustments. I'll admit my heart was broken when I wasn't able to wear flip flops, shorts, or capris but I'd say I got over it and handled it like a champ.

    But what I find most frustrating and obnoxious is that people need to worry about themselves and don't. For all the boys who sit back thinking that they can critique the clothing a girl wears (especially to her face), I say grow up, mind your own business, and if necessary, look the other way. I'm not saying it's ever acceptable to break the honor code but this is a personal matter and choice for each student and I'm sincerely hoping you have better things to worry about than whether or not the girl walking past you is trying to adjust her shirt. You're not a girl, you don't understand so please remain silent. Please and thank you.

    Also Abigail, I laughed probably 85% of the time I was reading this whole thing, totally has made my day and I can't wait to see you in a week! You're awesome and I want to take you shopping and I'll show you the true beauty of skinny jeans! Love ya!

    Jamie

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  4. I've never seen skinny jeans that were revealing. Maybe I need to look harder, or something. But looking at women here to see if their jeans accent their butt doesn't seem like something I should do, hah.

    My only problem with it is this: There's a constant variable in the equation. Who's the one making comments on it from administration? President Eyring. Who's publicly admitted to having a weakness of not being able to handle anything remotely immodest? President Eyring. Who stole the Adam and Eve painting from the Taylor building and then had to have it explained to him that it's art and isn't sexually arousing people? Yep, you guessed it, President Eyring. As much as I love personal vendettas trying to get 15,000+ people to conform to someone's quest to overcome their personal weaknesses, I don't think it's appropriate.

    As for the form-fitting clause, I believe it actually refers to clothes that reveal the person's form. Skinny jeans don't. Jeggings do, absolutely. My white shirt I go to devo in, class, church, and give blessings in, is form-fitting. I refuse to believe I have been breaking the honor code.

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  5. Abigail, I don't think we disagree. I just wasn't sure if it was okay to comment. And I don't feel like skinny jeans are bad at all. I just don't find them attractive. I'm more upset with the guys and girls who don't follow the honor code that has already been placed.

    -Jarek

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  6. Looks like the testing center is no longer enforcing their no skinny jean rule, so this discussion doesn't seem to matter anymore.

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  7. I disagree. I think it's completely relevant. As I've said, I feel like most skinny jeans are included in "formfitting" within the honor code. I thought it was great someone finally stepped forward and set a standard. I did realize when writing this that the school had never come forth with any statement banning anything and it was all rumors and stories, I just felt it was a good time to blog about the topic since I've thought about it numerous times.

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  8. And another thought to anonymous a few comments above me...your argument that your dress shirt for devo is formfitting is completely...ummmmmm, wrong haha If skinny jeans are not formfitting but leggings are then I would venture to say that your dress shirt is not but a wetsuit is. I don't think something is "formfitting" if you can see the shape of someone's body...if that was the case we would all have to walk around in robes. I think it's when clothing hugs tight the body, creating the same shape as though the clothes weren't there at all.

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  9. There was no official statement but that was what was being enforced in the testing center.

    ie - http://thestudentreview.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/photo.jpg

    My white shirt is as revealing as a girl's skinny jeans are. We don't even have to get into the wet suit issue unless we're talking about girls wearing spandex to the testing center.

    The problem is people in positions of relative power making arbitrary decisions and trying to force 15,000+ into their interpretation. It's wrong, and our school has been nationally embarrassed, and deservedly so.

    Especially that incredibly judgmental poster they had in the testing center. That's just plain wrong. So embarrassing...

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  10. Hey, I just wanted to say, BYUI posted a comment on facebook they are also going to post in the scroll. Skinny jeans are allowed on campus. What happened is someone in the testing center told someone to go home because they were wearing skinny jeans. Then someone else posted it in the scroll.
    Skinny jeans are not bad. In fact look around on campus and youll see alot of people wear them, including guys. And define skinny jeans? formfitting? Dont most jeans define and hug your form?
    Im just saying that the skinny jeans situation was a rumor that someone started, it got made a big deal of and here we are. Our own school and honor have said they ARE allowed.
    Just my two bits.

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