Tuesday, July 2, 2013

I'm Ranting. Are You Listening?

Wow I am ready to rant.  Sometimes I wish I could just record my rant and play a recording of it because I feel like I lose some of the ranting-ness when I type.  Regardless, I'm giving it a go.

So, what will I rant about today?  I'm expressing my strong feelings about the ungratefulness and/ or stupidity and/ or immaturity of some BYU-Idaho students.  Sometimes I honestly want to smack people upside the head!!!

I don't understand what people could POSSIBLY complain about regarding BYUI.  Okay, I can see how some people wish we had intercollegiate sports...but that's about it.

Here's what's happening at BYUI.  You are coming to an LDS school and paying $1825 for a semester (starting Fall 2013...it's a little cheaper right now).  A SEMESTER.  That's $152 per credit.  ONE HUNDRED AND FIFTY TWO dollars per credit.  Wanna know what you should be paying for a BYU-Idaho education?  Closer to $10,000- $12,000 (one of my professors estimates it's even more then that) a semester.  You are getting your education at an 80% discount.

What are you getting for that $1825?  You get classes with an average of 30 students.  You get professors who know your name, care about your life and want you to succeed.  You get professors who have worked in the real world and who are at the top of their game. You get a fitness center built in 2011 with brand new equipment worth about a million dollars...for free.  You get an amazing gym you can use at your discretion.  Racquetball/ Wallball courts, a pool, and even more gyms.  You get a 15,000 seat top-of-the-line, award winning auditorium.  In the auditorium you get spiritual fulfillment every week from some of the greatest leaders of the church today.  You get hands-on experience in every.single.major.  There's a cadaver lab (with four bodies), 16,000 sq feet of greenhouses and hundreds of thousands of feet of outdoor gardens, an automotive body shop, a welding lab, a woodworking shop, a photography lab, art labs, a state-of-the-art industrial kitchen and bakery, sewing labs, a preschool lab where you actually work with children, an off-site livestock center with all sorts of large animals and animal labs, ballrooms upon ballrooms, newsrooms, broadcasting studios, a geology and wildlife museum, chemistry and physics labs....should I go on?!

Student services.  You have free tutoring for practically any class you could want.  Besides one-on-one tutoring there are accounting, physics, chemistry, economics, math, writing, and foreign language open tutoring centers. Free fitness consultants at the gym.  Free fitness workshops every night including Zumba, yoga, pilates, cycling, abs that rock, water aerobics, Latin Jam, step classes and more.  Free nutrition counseling and full-body assessments at the Wellness Center.  Free any-kind-of counseling by licensed professionals at the counseling center.  A free computer help desk to assist with any laptop/ computer problems you may encounter and 24 hour phone service to assist you if you are at home.  $1 Ballroom, Latin, Country and Swing dances every week with and extra hour of instruction included.  Dirt cheap performances by entertainers from around the country.  Bill Cosby, The PianoGuys, The Chinese Acrobats, Diamond Rio, Jim Brickman, Chris Mann to name a few.

And what do students do?  They COMPLAIN.  They complain because they have to be home by midnight.  They complain because they can't wear shorts and flip-flops on campus.  They complain because they have to go to church and fhe.  They complain because they have homework.  They complain because their roommates are goody-two-shoes.  They complain because they have the wrong track.  They complain because they can't come on their off-track.  They complain because they can't get into a class.  They complain because they didn't get a scholarship.  They complain because there's too much group work.  They complain because they have to go to school through July when their friends were done months ago.  They complain because Rexburg is small.  They complain because there's "nothing to do here."  They complain that the university is stealing their agency.  They complain that the library isn't open later.  They complain that the food on campus is too expensive.  They complain it's too cold/ windy.  They complain and complain and complain. 

I'm sick of it.  I'm sooooooo done and over it. 

I talk to people on a weekly basis who are practically begging me to help them get into BYU-Idaho.  Who would give almost ANYTHING to be here and can't for some reason or another (don't meet requirements, miss deadlines etc).  It breaks my heart when I know that there are so many people who don't have the opportunity to come here and then there are hundreds here who take every last bit of it for granted. 

Yesterday, I was talking with a friend who went on a date with a guy who turned out to be a real jerk.  And that's putting it lightly.  He had no respect for her or for women in general and it made me sick hearing what he tried doing to her.  I won't lie.  I want him gone.  I want him to leave and never come back.  I want him to withdraw from his classes two weeks before finals and I don't want a single thing he did to count this semester.  He doesn't deserve to be here.  I am FURIOUS!  And I have no problem saying it.

Great things come from sacrifices.  And if I have to sacrifice wearing shorts to class to go to a university with everything listed above, then it's a no-brainer.  And I'm not going to complain.  I'm going to be grateful that's the only sacrifice I'm making.  Actually, it's not the only sacrifice.  I'm a fall/ spring student.  So I don't go to school January- April.  Weird, I know.  But because of this system, BYU-Idaho can admit approximately 6,000 more students per year.  When people come into the office to complain about their track, sometimes I want to tell them that based on their application, they probably wouldn't have even gotten into BYUI without the track system.  And I'm sorry, you may have to grow up sooner than expected and find a job out here instead of going home every summer to work at Dairy Queen.  Trust me, I know you can find a different job...you just haven't looked yet.  Welcome to the real world where things don't always go as planned and sometimes you have to make decisions you didn't think you would have to make.  Do you want to come to BYUI or do you want to sell pest-control in the summer.  Yes, I understand you make a lot of money doing that.  That's fantastic!  I wish I could make $30,000 in three months without a college degree.  If I could do that, I'd probably drop out of college and just do that full-time!  So what do you want?  Do you want to come to BYU-Idaho?  Because maybe you're going to have to make a sacrifice to do so.

If you don't want to come here then don't.  There are thousands of other universities you can go to that let you wear shorts and flip-flops to campus and let you say out as long as you want every night.  No one is checking up on you.  No one cares if you go to church.  No ones cares if you pass your classes.  No ones cares what your name is or what you want to do with your life.

Maybe that's a slight exaggeration on some points.  I will admit, I'm sure it is.  But not on every point.

Think about it.  Think about why you want to be here and what a privilege it is to be here.  Think about how many people here are rooting for you to succeed in life!  Think about how many people around the world wish they were in your place.  Think about how much extra sleep you get because you're home by midnight everynight ;)

I know I'm preaching to the choir.  I doubt anyone that reads this (if you've actually read this whole thing you are my new favorite person) that hates BYUI and is now going to change their outlook on it.  But I had to get it out.  Thanks for listening to my rant.  More might be coming soon.

9 comments:

  1. Abigail, I have to admit. We don't really know each other but I read the entire post. I loved it. Thank you writing this. I have graduated from BYUI and I wish I was still there some days. I miss small town Rexburg. I miss the teachers knowing your name. I miss weekly devotional. I even miss not being able to wear sweat pants or flip flops to class! haha. Thanks for the post. I enjoyed it.

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  2. Read it, had my husband read it, and we both agree.

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  3. I read your post because someone sent me your link!!! I went to Ricks and LOVED every minute of it. And you are right, there are A LOT of people at BYUI or BYU (for that matter) who shouldn't be there. Kuddo's to you for standing your ground...and yes that doosh bag should be kicked out of BYUI!!!!!

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  4. This is so excellent, and I agree with you 100%. BYU-Idaho is a fantastic school filled with amazing teachers and opportunities. Plus the Spirit is sooo strong there! Who could ask for anything better than BYU-Idaho?

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  5. Read it because it was posted on Facebook. Sharing this one.

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  6. I come from a slightly different perspective, having gone to BYU rather than BYU-I, but, while I agree with you in the general sense of most students being ungrateful for the vast spectrum of possibilities laid at their disposal for an incredibly low fee, I do think there are some things that it is justifiable to complain about. Or at least to be discontent about.

    I started BYU a year early at 17 because I was excited for college and wanted to study dance there. I had family who had attended there and was somewhat familiar with the school. It felt like a safe, fun, and exciting place where I knew I would get a good education. But all my preparation and effort, and appreciation for what I had there, didn't prepare me for the constraining feeling I had intellectually and spiritually at BYU. I struggled to feel like I could fully explore my mind, thoughts, and beliefs. And it wasn't good for my faith to feel like I had to conform for the sake of conformity rather than the sake of choice. So that nature of BYU and BYU-I that places a heavy emphasis on the many things that you have to do to be there, including thought conformity, that was a problem for me. Not because I minded following the rules and standards, but because I didn't feel like I was in a space where I could really open my mind. And I didn't identify that effect until well into my third year at BYU. I feel justified in complaining about that atmosphere now. It contributed to damaging my faith and it took me several years of rearranging my beliefs to compensate for that effect and get back where I want to be.

    I fully know that many, and probably most, LDS members flourish in that environment, but as I did not, I wish that the atmosphere was more welcoming to intellectual exploration if not dress and curfew standards. In hindsight, I can see that I probably would have been happier, or at have least skipped several years of spiritual pain, at another university, but that's not always an easy thing to identify when you're just starting out or even in the middle of it. I can be grateful for my many good experiences there while simultaneously recognizing some of the flaws and imperfections in the school.

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  7. Girl, thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! I can't tell you how annoying it is that people come here, complain and/or don't follow the rules and then complain more that they might get in trouble. I hate it when people complain about something they already knew about. When you applied to go to BYU-I you already knew the rules. You knew there were no shorts, flip flops, tank tops, boys in the bedroom and no you can't be out past curfew... YOU ALREADY KNEW THAT!! So if you knew, and you come anyways, why are you flipping complaining? It's a good thing I graduated when I did because I was about to kick some major rear. So thank you friend for your rant.. more people should.

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  8. Coming from someone who lives 20 minutes from campus, has had every family member go there since the beginning of time, and has never wanted to go there in hopes that I could be different, I am really grateful for this post. I won't completely rule this school out.

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  9. Yo dawg, I heard you hate complaining, so I posted a blog about people complaining so you can complain while others complain.

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